The time was now proper to meet up with her to inform her love story to the world; it is one thing that most individuals have no idea. We at ETimes referred to as her up and Usha Khanna spoke about it.
Here is the dialog that transpired:
Let’s rewind your complete love story with Saawan Kumar Tak…
When and the place did you first meet Saawan Kumar Tak?
I used to be doing the music of a movie the place Saawan Kumar ji had dropped by; he was writing its songs. We developed nearly an immediate rapport.
He quickly signed me up for his upcoming directorial (then) ‘Hawas’. Alongside the best way, our friendship blossomed into love.
Did both or each meet with any parental/household resistance?
No. In truth, our households attended our marriage.
What occurred after 7 years that you simply each ended the wedding?
It occurs. After a couple of years, you begin disliking sure issues concerning the particular person you might be with. Higher to half methods and stay individually than continuously quarrel. I can not speak dangerous about somebody I beloved. However we could not get alongside. The understanding began waning. We determined, ‘
aap apni jagah, essential apni jagah– however let’s stay as mates’.
At present, I’m lacking a good friend (will get tearful).
Jo understanding hamari friendship mein thi, woh shaadi ke rishtey mein nahin hui.
When did you final communicate to him?
4 days earlier than he handed away, we spoke on the cellphone. He requested me to come back over for lunch. I advised him, ‘Positively. Simply await few days, at present I’m fasting as we’re within the month of savan’. He requested me when will my quick finish. I advised him ‘It is going to finish on August 28. I shall go to you on twenty eighth itself’.
When did you final meet Saawan Kumar Tak?
A couple of month earlier than he handed away. I had gone over to his place.
Had been you two in such frequent contact?
Oh, sure. At any time when we had been free, we used to attempt to catch up. He beloved taking part in playing cards. I used to hitch.
Did you go to his home when he handed away?
No, I didn’t (will get tearful).
Might I ask why…
Ab chale gaye, toh kya jaake karungi? His son despatched me the photographs from the hospital the place he had been admitted. He additionally despatched me the photographs from his final rites’ ceremony.
It’s commendable that you simply each bought alongside so effectively regardless of ending your marriage…
Everybody from the business puzzled whether or not we had truly separated, after they noticed our fixed gelling. Rajesh Khanna used to ask if we had been fooling the world that we had separated. We did not even differ on the selection of the singer. Whichever identify advised for a track, Saawan ji would go together with that. And, I might simply comply with him on no matter variation or specs he wished in my voice for his motion pictures.
Was it that Saawan Kumar Tak was too pleasant with many ladies?
Kya unke kuch rishtey huye the?
, huye the. I stated that we must always keep individually and I would not disturb him (in his private life) thereafter.
However that damage you…
Dekhiye, dukh toh hota tha (Disappointment is apparent in such issues); in spite of everything, we had been man and spouse.
Bas, maine kaha, aap apni jagah rahiye aur essential apni jagah rehti hoon (let’s keep beneath completely different roofs). I did not wish to pile on him and preserve preventing.
Was that one of many explanation why you ended your marriage with him? His way of life, I imply…
You imply, he having his share of girlfriends (after marriage)? Effectively, they got here to him on their very own; what might he do?
Let me ask you once more:
Was that one of many explanation why you ended your marriage with him?
Sure, relationships are like glass. A crack had fashioned. However I did not let it rule over me and get the higher of me.
That is good, else it may need affected your well being…
However if you tried explaining to him his errant methods, did he refuse to hearken to you?
Frankly talking, I did not strive explaining him. If ladies referred to as him, I in reality all the time handed him the cellphone if I had picked up. Like, ‘
Radhika ka cellphone aaya hai, aap baat kar lijiye‘.